"I think that we can all be better people by reducing anger and making a habit out of thinking positive, especially viewing others positive attributes. 

Life is short as they say and telling somebody something nice, makes them and us feel better than telling them something not nice. By thinking about that enough and doing it, we can make that a habit.  People, in turn respect a person that treats them like that.........which is the most important thing for most of us.........even more than money..........to be respected by other people because they know you have integrity."